tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3713030349047688542.post7538750629209677883..comments2023-11-07T07:22:48.414-06:00Comments on Being BetteJo: When the time comes ...BetteJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11650981249204116251noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3713030349047688542.post-73490073108914499452010-07-19T12:15:33.472-05:002010-07-19T12:15:33.472-05:00Difficult times for you BetteJo...Difficult times for you BetteJo...Lady Bananahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02950585926431895778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3713030349047688542.post-40521129925997983312010-07-16T09:29:51.683-05:002010-07-16T09:29:51.683-05:00Oh, my dear friend. I'm so sorry to read this....Oh, my dear friend. I'm so sorry to read this. I think Tonya's advice is really good. Get as much in place as you can, with good advice. Then you will know you've done all you can. <br><br>I'm praying for you, dear one.Susannahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17706229786132028791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3713030349047688542.post-17648976957085246822010-07-14T19:41:45.999-05:002010-07-14T19:41:45.999-05:00Bette Jo - my heart goes out to you and your famil...Bette Jo - my heart goes out to you and your family.The Beading Gemhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10373750828368944711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3713030349047688542.post-31126563514029769762010-07-14T15:37:37.868-05:002010-07-14T15:37:37.868-05:00BetteJo, I will be keeping you both in my thoughts...BetteJo, I will be keeping you both in my thoughts. Hugs here if youd like them.Lavenderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00837170932026113619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3713030349047688542.post-3717426840842858022010-07-13T09:18:21.292-05:002010-07-13T09:18:21.292-05:00My Mom had lung cancer, it wasent breathing believ...My Mom had lung cancer, it wasent breathing believe it or not that was her problem but pain from millions of little tumors eating away at the spine.(She smoked every day for more than 50 years)I kept asking for morphine when ever she was in pain.That kept her more or less asleep,and she died in her sleep.The less painful way to go of course, I could not stand to see her in pain any longer.The nurses wanted her to ask for it, boy did i straighten them out, my mother asked me in the beginning to be her voice and I was to the best of my ability.Who knew my mother better than me,certainly not some nurse who could care less and only saw an old dying woman.BettJo do your best for her that's all you really can do<br>DianeDiane at Crafty Passionshttp://dianobe.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3713030349047688542.post-52687595261737202362010-07-13T07:47:12.488-05:002010-07-13T07:47:12.488-05:00I think it is time to consult a lawyer and her Dr....I think it is time to consult a lawyer and her Dr. They can help you and your mother make decissions based on what she wants. That is what we did after my mothers last heart attack. It gives you peace of mind in knowing that the choices are made and you are free to spend those last days with your mother. That's my advice for what it's worth.Tonyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00813268632993119604noreply@blogger.com